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Thursday 21 April 2016

LOVE MARRIAGE VS ARRANGE MARRIAGE

            LOVE MARRIAGE   VS   ARRANGE MARRIAGE



                                        



        MARRIAGE :- 

                   Marriage is the intimate union and equal partnership of a man and a                                                                    woman. It's Also a very important social institution. 
                                The Definition of Marriage Varies According to Different Cultures, But it is 
                                Principally an Institution in Which Interpersonal Relationships, 
                                Usually Sexual, are Acknowledged.
                                Every Individual wants to have a Perfect Match, but the Criteria for
                                Choosing the Partner is Different. 
                                Also, In some cultures, Marriage is Recommended or Considered to be 
                                Compulsory before Pursuing any Sexual activity.


                             LOVE:-
                       
                                


                                The mutual love of a married couple should always be open to new life. 
                                This openness is expressed powerfully in the sexual union of husband 
                                and wife. The power to create a child with God is at the heart of what 
                                spouses share with each other in sexual intercourse.
                               
                                Back To The Topic...
                                                                  Basically We Consider Two Types Of  Marriage 

                                          ARRANGE MARRIAGE 
                                                                                  &
                                                                                       LOVE MARRIAGE...
                                 In Love Marriages, Individuals Prefer to Choose their Partners on
                                 their own, 
                                 while in case of Arrange Marriages, Individuals Prefers Partners 
                                 Chosen by their Family or Parents.
            There is a continuous debate regarding the best way to choose the partner for marriage.
                                      Let’s Analyze which one of the two is The Best Option.


       LOVE MARRIAGE :-


                                            


                    - Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the 
                      whole life with each other.
                    - Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on 
                      the couple only and nobody else.
                    - Couple is aware of each other’s likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get 
                      along well.
                    - Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because 
                      they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
                    - The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding 
                      between the couple.

            ARRANGE MARRIAGE :-


                                     

                   - Arrange Marriage is not a contract between two individuals alone but a                                                                       confluence of two families.
                - Two families involved in arrange marriages know each other very well and 
are compatible with each other.
             - Because there are more people involved in arrange marriage, the conflict
                       between the couple will be effectively resolved or mitigated.
             - Couple is guided by parents experience whereas in love marriage couple 
                       is unknown about the future complexities in life and lacks this experience.


             MY OPINION :-

                             They Both have their Own Value in their Own Respect.
                             But, Now a Day Love Marriage is Common in Our Society.
                             And Also As Per My Prospective Love Marriage Is Best Option To 
                             Find a Perfect Matching Partner.
                             But, For Successful Marriage Love And Trust Is The Biggest Thing. 
                             Couples make Sure that they have Trust in Each Other. 
                             And, In Love Marriage They know Each Other They Understand Each 
                             Other And They Know Everything About Each Other. 
                            
                             Love Marriage is a Beautiful Feeling Between Boy and Girl 
                             and they Mingle Life Long Forever With A Lot's Of  Love.
                             And. Love Is Not Just a Word It's a Feelings Of Two People It's a 
                             Crazy Moment Of Your Life. 

        "Why Love Marriage Is Better Then Arrange Marriage ? Because a Known DEVIL Is Better, 
                                                               Then a Unknown Ghost..."


              ARRANGE MARRIAGE BE LIKE :-
                               - Jaldbazi Main Shaadi Krke Sara Jivan Bigad Loge,
                                 Soch Smjh Ke Kroge Toh Bhi Kya Ukhad Loge..... 
                              - Like a Lottery, Lag Gayi To Lag Gayi 
                                Nahi toh LAG GAYI  ...              


             Jokes For You :-
                                           
                                            
   
 - Arrange Marriage Be Like You Are Walking And Unfortunately a 
                                Snake Bytes You, 
                                Love Marriage Is Dancing In Front Of a Cobra And Say,
                                 Kaat.. Kaat Kaat.. Kaat Na...
-  Husband Sir, Meri Biwi Gum ho Gai Hai,
                                Post master, Aandhe Yeh Post Office Hai, Police Station Jao,
                                Husband, Maaf Kejeay ga Jyada Khushi Mey Smjh Nhi Aaraha Hai 
                                Kaha Jau...



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