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Monday 25 April 2016

LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIP

                        ''LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIP''

       LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIP :-



                        Where Two People who are Not Married Live Together in an Emotionally 
                         and/or Sexually Intimate Relationship on a Long-Term or Permanent Basis.
                         It's Usually Refers to Unmarried Couples who Live Together Without Formally                                             Registering Their Relation as a Marriage. 

                         Couples are Free of any Obligations and Can Choose to Live their Life as 
                         They Please. 
                        Couple Most of the Times Prefer Live in Relationships because of the Knowledge
                        that they can Change Partners Quickly and since most of the Youth these days
                        are Unwilling to Commit Themselves, Live-in Relationships are the Preferred 
                        Option.

                        Live-in Relationships are Perfect for Testing your Partner’s Compatibility.






                        You can also know about your Partner’s views on Religion, Sex, Money and 
                        Politics. Many Live-in Couples also come to know about each other’s Interest
                        and Common Views. Many Married Couples see a Different Side to their Spouses                                           Every Day and Then Wonder How did I not Notice that Before? 
                        Live-in Relationships on the Other Hand Allow the Partners to know Each 

                        Other Every Well.



        ADVANTAGES OF LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIP OVER                 MARRIAGE :-

                  More Time : Live in Couples also Enjoy Spending more Time with Each Other 
                                       Which Might not be Possible in a Marriage because of time Constraints. 
                                       Live in Couples can also Live Independent Lives so that Each Partner 
                                       gets to Fulfill his Own Ambitions, Dreams and Desires.                 

                  Financial Relief : If a Live-in Couple are on Good Financial Terms with Each 
                                       Other They can Agree to Share their Earnings with Each Other which
                                       is Beneficial as it Ensures that both the Couples are on the Same Page.
                                       There are no Arguments or Conflicts Relating Money Problems and this                                                                  helps in Strengthening the Relationship. 

                  Break Ups Are Easier : While a Marriage Requires A Lot of Time and Effort to 
                                        Dissolve because it a Strict and Unassailable Arrangement, It is Easy
                                        to Break up with Each Other in a Live in Relationship If a Live in 
                                        Couple Realize they are not Compatible with Each Other or That 
                                        They don’t Understand Each Other Any more So they can Easily
                                        Break up without any Constraints.

                 No Divorce : Many People are Scared to Enter into a New Relationship after a 
                                       Divorce or Abusive Marriage So, This is quite possibly the biggest
                                       advantage of a live in relationship. Because a Divorce can be a 
                                       Traumatic and Hurtful Experience with False Allegations and Counter                                                          Allegations making it a Cruel Battle of Wits Where No One Wins Except
                                       may be The Lawyers.
                 Changing Partners : Sorry to Say But It's True, If you Aren’t Satisfied with Your 
                                       Partner or You Get Bored of Seeing the Same Face Every Morning, 
                                       Then you can Pack your Bags and Move Out Without any Legal 
                                       Procedures or Hassles... 


          Live-in Relationship In India Is Legal Or Not :-



                                Live-in Relationship Gets Legal Status Couples to be Presumed Married 
                                 As Per Supreme Court. Live-in Relationships in India Though Not Illegal 
                                are Considered as Moral or Improper. 
              As Per Delhi High Court :  
                              "‘Live-in relationship’ is a walk-in and walk-out relationship. There
                              are no strings attached to this relationship, neither this relationship 
                              creates any legal bond between the parties. It is a contract of living 
                              together which is renewed every day by the parties and can be terminated
                              by either of the parties without consent of the other party and one party can                                                    walk out at will at any time."






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Thursday 21 April 2016

LOVE MARRIAGE VS ARRANGE MARRIAGE

            LOVE MARRIAGE   VS   ARRANGE MARRIAGE



                                        



        MARRIAGE :- 

                   Marriage is the intimate union and equal partnership of a man and a                                                                    woman. It's Also a very important social institution. 
                                The Definition of Marriage Varies According to Different Cultures, But it is 
                                Principally an Institution in Which Interpersonal Relationships, 
                                Usually Sexual, are Acknowledged.
                                Every Individual wants to have a Perfect Match, but the Criteria for
                                Choosing the Partner is Different. 
                                Also, In some cultures, Marriage is Recommended or Considered to be 
                                Compulsory before Pursuing any Sexual activity.


                             LOVE:-
                       
                                


                                The mutual love of a married couple should always be open to new life. 
                                This openness is expressed powerfully in the sexual union of husband 
                                and wife. The power to create a child with God is at the heart of what 
                                spouses share with each other in sexual intercourse.
                               
                                Back To The Topic...
                                                                  Basically We Consider Two Types Of  Marriage 

                                          ARRANGE MARRIAGE 
                                                                                  &
                                                                                       LOVE MARRIAGE...
                                 In Love Marriages, Individuals Prefer to Choose their Partners on
                                 their own, 
                                 while in case of Arrange Marriages, Individuals Prefers Partners 
                                 Chosen by their Family or Parents.
            There is a continuous debate regarding the best way to choose the partner for marriage.
                                      Let’s Analyze which one of the two is The Best Option.


       LOVE MARRIAGE :-


                                            


                    - Both individuals know each other already and mutually decide to spend the 
                      whole life with each other.
                    - Couple is responsible for its choice and onus of the blame in future lies on 
                      the couple only and nobody else.
                    - Couple is aware of each other’s likes and dislikes. Therefore they will get 
                      along well.
                    - Couple can eradicate social evil like dowry with their mutual consent because 
                      they have the independence to take such decisions at their own level.
                    - The culture of the extravagant spending too can be curbed by the understanding 
                      between the couple.

            ARRANGE MARRIAGE :-


                                     

                   - Arrange Marriage is not a contract between two individuals alone but a                                                                       confluence of two families.
                - Two families involved in arrange marriages know each other very well and 
are compatible with each other.
             - Because there are more people involved in arrange marriage, the conflict
                       between the couple will be effectively resolved or mitigated.
             - Couple is guided by parents experience whereas in love marriage couple 
                       is unknown about the future complexities in life and lacks this experience.


             MY OPINION :-

                             They Both have their Own Value in their Own Respect.
                             But, Now a Day Love Marriage is Common in Our Society.
                             And Also As Per My Prospective Love Marriage Is Best Option To 
                             Find a Perfect Matching Partner.
                             But, For Successful Marriage Love And Trust Is The Biggest Thing. 
                             Couples make Sure that they have Trust in Each Other. 
                             And, In Love Marriage They know Each Other They Understand Each 
                             Other And They Know Everything About Each Other. 
                            
                             Love Marriage is a Beautiful Feeling Between Boy and Girl 
                             and they Mingle Life Long Forever With A Lot's Of  Love.
                             And. Love Is Not Just a Word It's a Feelings Of Two People It's a 
                             Crazy Moment Of Your Life. 

        "Why Love Marriage Is Better Then Arrange Marriage ? Because a Known DEVIL Is Better, 
                                                               Then a Unknown Ghost..."


              ARRANGE MARRIAGE BE LIKE :-
                               - Jaldbazi Main Shaadi Krke Sara Jivan Bigad Loge,
                                 Soch Smjh Ke Kroge Toh Bhi Kya Ukhad Loge..... 
                              - Like a Lottery, Lag Gayi To Lag Gayi 
                                Nahi toh LAG GAYI  ...              


             Jokes For You :-
                                           
                                            
   
 - Arrange Marriage Be Like You Are Walking And Unfortunately a 
                                Snake Bytes You, 
                                Love Marriage Is Dancing In Front Of a Cobra And Say,
                                 Kaat.. Kaat Kaat.. Kaat Na...
-  Husband Sir, Meri Biwi Gum ho Gai Hai,
                                Post master, Aandhe Yeh Post Office Hai, Police Station Jao,
                                Husband, Maaf Kejeay ga Jyada Khushi Mey Smjh Nhi Aaraha Hai 
                                Kaha Jau...



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Wednesday 20 April 2016

WHY DO WE GROW UP

                        WHY DO WE GROW UP ...??? 



          WHY DO WE GROW UP ??? 


                      We may dread it, avoid it, and delay it, but most of us eventually get
                                 around to it. Because it is so very human to resist growing up, I have 
                                 been wondering if there is some reason beyond necessity that we might 
                                 actually be motivated to do so.
                                Growing up is one of the facts of life. We all have to do it.
                                We tend to idealize being babies. We want to be taken care of, to be 
                                protected and adored and unconditionally loved. We tend to view work 
                                as a burden and responsibility as a necessary evil. We must fight the urge
                                within us to stay under the covers. We must work to overcome a basic                                                     predisposition toward avoiding the demands of reality. Like Peter Pan, 
                               we want to live in the Never land of an eternal childhood.


          WHY WOULD WE WANT TO GROW UP ???




                               We want to grow up because it involves achievements that make us
                               feel good about ourselves. And we can’t feel good about ourselves
                               in that way, unless we know that we have earned it. And earning it
                               means we worked for it. And working for it means that we are growing.
                               We are pushing ourselves beyond ourselves. We are learning something new,
                              doing something we have never done before, pushing ourselves further 
                              than we have ever gone before. Not only do we collapse with exhaustion
                              when we reach the finish line, but we do so with a smile on our faces,
                              a thrill in our hearts, and a “Woot! Woot!” from the crowd. 
                              Accomplishment is a psychological reward beyond measure.





                             But at a deeper level, the real meat of our stories is that each of the 
                             characters takes on the challenge to do something that they have never
                             been able to do before.
                             They are urged to push themselves beyond their limitations—to grieve 
                             a lost loved one, to fulfil a dream, to face a fear, or to invest more heartily
                             in life. One by one, they each take up the task of growing up.
                             Each accomplishment delights the soul. Each demonstrates another 
                             important truth—that children will be inspired to grow up when they see
                             adults enjoying the rewards of doing so themselves.

             I don’t think I’d have been in such a hurry to reach adulthood if I’d known the whole thing was going to be ad-libbed.Bill Watterson



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Wednesday 13 April 2016

TRIP TO MUSSOORE, UTTARAKHAND (QUEEN OF HILLS)

TRIP TO MUSSOORIE...

                                           MUSSOORIE, UTTARAKHAND .!!!  (QUEEN OF HILLS)
                                                                                                                                                                  

                              WEEKEND TRIP TO MUSSOORIE    

                                                              

                               #MUSSOORIE, Is Popularly Known As QUEEN OF HILLS... 
                                Mussoorie Is One Of The Beautiful  Hill Station In India. 
                               #MUSSOORIE, 34KM From Dehradun Uttarakhand , Is Situated 
                               At A Height Of  2005MTS Above The Sea Level In The Garhwal Hills.

                     Why MUSSOORIE :-





                           If You Want Relief And Want To Chill On This Upcoming Weekend 
                          Then This Is Perfect And Beautiful Place For You, For Enjoying And
                          Relaxing....


                          #MUSSOORIE Is Very Famous For His Beauty, And This Is One Of The
                          Reason We Known Mussoorie As QUEEN OF HILL..
                          There Are Many Famous And Popular Area's In MUSSOORIE And Near                                                                   By MUSSOORIE
                         Like- #KEMPTY FALLS, #MAAL ROAD, #GANDHI PARK 
                                  #MUSSOORIE LAKE 
          
                   #MAAL ROAD 
                              
                        :- Mussoorie's Mall Road Offers All That Is Expected From A Typical
                         Indian Hill Station. Restaurant And Cafes Coexist Alongside Video Game
                         Parlours And Souvenir Vendors. There Are Two Opposite Ends Of The 
                         Mall Road, Referred To As Library And Picture Palace Sides By Locals.
                         The Mall Road Runs Through The Town And Offers Pleasent Views Of
                          Vendant Hills And Valleys On Almost Every Nook And Corner. It's No 
                         Doubt The Throbbing Artery Of Mussoories That Gives It Life..


                    How To Reach MUSSOORIE :-



            Visitors To Mussoories Can easily take the Air, Rail Or Road Route
              to reach the Hill Station. If you are fliying by Air, you can arrived at
                 the Jolly Grant Airport (60 km) at Dehradun. The Airport has Regular
               Flights Connected to Delhi. And After Arrival at Jolly Grant Airport,
    You can easily reach Mussoorie by Bus, Taxi or a Private Cab.
                 Reaching Mussoorie by Rail is Also a Good Option Closest Railhead 
                       From Mussoorie, Dehradun is quite well linked with India's Major Cities
                                  Mumbai (Maharashtra), New Delhi, Lucknow (Uttar Pradesh), Howrah
                                  (West Bengal), Amritsar (Punjab), Haridwar (Uttarakhand), Rishikesh                                                                (Uttarakhand), Indore (Madhya Pradesh), Allahabad (Uttar Pradesh), 
                                  Varanasi (Uttar Pradesh) etc.
                                  The railway station At Dehradun is just at 35 km from Mussoorie and 
                                  regular Buses and Taxis are Available to reach the Hill Station. The Hill 
                                  Stition Of Mussoorie is also easily accessible by Road. It is Quite well                                                                   connected to all major cities in the state of Uttrakhand and outside state                                                           Transport Buses regularly connected Mussoorie to different Key destinations
                                 of the country. From Mojor cities like Delhi, Private Cabs and Taxis are also                                        regularly available for reaching Mussoorie. 
                   And If You Love Adventure's Trip And Road Trip, So Best Is Go With Your Bikes..
                   It's #Amazing...!!



         ADVENTURE IN MUSSOORIE :-                                                                                                                                                             ( FEAR VS DARE )


  • SKY WALK ADVENTURE
  • SKY BRIDGE ADVENTURE
  • VALLEY CROSSING ADVENTURE
  • ZIP LINE ADVENTURE
  • ROCK CLIMBING ADVENTURE
  • RAPPELLING ADVENTURE
  • CAMPING IN DHANAULTI MAGIC
  • TREKKING ADVENTURE
  • ATV ( QUAD BIKES ) ADVENTURE
  • PARAGLIDING IN MUSSOORIE...



    #Arpitja_in